I am posting my story in Bulgarian on Wattpad (currently not). I had written ahead and asked if people would be interested to read and not wait. Except my best friend two dudes wanted to join so I made a group. Every Sunday I'd send them everything I've written for the past week.
Now what happened to make one of the guys leave had nothing to do with my work.
The kid is easily annoyed, has close to no chill unless you catch him in mood. And he's never in good mood.
You know messanger added a new feature. More of the love themed emojies would float and I was gushing over it in the chat. He started to type in repetedly "Stop" and of course I wouldn't stop, this is the cutest thing I've seen in a while.
He threatened to leave the group. Just after that the other boy whined because his emojies wouldn't float. So I made a screan record in the chat to show him. Meanwhile whiny dude probably thought he is the shit around town and made a scene of leaving the chat.
Believe me when I tell you I physicly laughed at my screen. Huge weight fell of my chest and now this chat is one of my favourite places.
I didn't contact the guy who left and I will not. Even if he wants to get back in the group I am not adding him again. It's now a sacred place I do not want to ruin.
My whole point with this post is to not repeat to you "Cut toxic people from your life". I'm sure you understand why this is important but it doesn't connect with you on a deep level.
I didn't feel the meaning of this until after I was no longer in contact with this dude. I've thought of this before and I will say it.
The best advice in the world will mean nothing to you until you experience it yourself.
So don't just read advice. Try to see why it is adviced.
I did it by incident and now I have a safe space for myself.
Till next time Hammer-on and jam along!
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